How do I make my own path?

When I was wondering how to find my own path, one of a senior person told me that "no matter what you've decided to do, just keep going. That eventually will become your path." That's the difficult part because I had no idea what I really want to do with or in my life. For... Continue Reading →

How would I like to measure my self-worth?

For many years, I lived in a state of life that I am worthless if I couldn't help others. I am worthless if I lost this leadership position. I am worthless if I am not useful to them. I am worthless if I cannot prove my self-worth to others. My self-worth was measured by how... Continue Reading →

How do I become comfortable with unknown?

Exploring unknown for me was nothing else but fear and stress. Probably this is one of the reason I dislike exploring the world because I feel if anything happens, I don't have any control nor strategies to save myself. Not only in relation to travelling, such mindset also impact on my other components of personal... Continue Reading →

Am I resilient?

Recently, I come across the word "resilience" multiple times in my life. This doesn't mean that I never come across this word. It simply means that I take more notice of this word. What does being resilient mean to you?I find this very difficult, to explain to someone whether I am resilient or not. I... Continue Reading →

How do I make everyday different?

At the New Year's Day this year, I was having a conversation with a friend. We both spending this day as a normal continuous day. Yes. It is a New Year's Day but how is that different to your previous day, new year's eve? How is that different to a week ago? Many people make... Continue Reading →

What confesses a character of a person?

I was having a conversation about academics in general with my colleagues. We have agreed that certain type or characters of a person becomes an academic. Even more, only a handful of them survives in that competitive environment. Only few of them were allowed to climb up that ladder and invited to that top group.... Continue Reading →

What did time explained to me?

When things happens, a common phrase you hear is "time will tell." Many times, I actually replied "I want the answer now" but as time pass by, I have realised that the answer I get now might be different to what I have in years time or a decade time. I remember the first time... Continue Reading →

Where’s my crown?

Become the master of your mind rather than let your mind master you.The Writings of Nichiren Daishonin, p. 486 I learn this phrase since when I was young. As I was confused about myself, I had low self-esteem and high self-doubt. I couldn't trust my instinct or any of my own judgement. I was easily... Continue Reading →

When I considered…

In many occasions, people questioned why I choose down that path. It is usually a path sensible people will not choose. Probably, I was influenced by my mother who would say what she wants to say without considering twice. Over the weekend, I was having a chat with a person. I was sharing my own... Continue Reading →

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