What defeats people?

I can think of many reasons why I didn't proceed with what I wanted to proceed. For example, I wanted to learn knitting but I did't want to start until I have every correct equipment ready to go. As time flies, I become too busy to buy these equipment and the fire or motivation fades... Continue Reading →

What you do?

I have learnt to learn from action. Probably related to my background as well. Instead of learning from listening over an unfamiliar language, I found myself learn faster by observing what others do. One day, I was studying about Self-Efficacy Theory by Albert Bandura (1997). Bandura explained four sources to build self-efficacy which were: mastery... Continue Reading →

When was the last time you cried out?

When was the last time you cried out? I've been told not to cry because it is a weakness. I've been told not to cry because it is no use to others. In addition, I personally believed crying is too emotional in some sense. I saw my mum cried in public uncontrollably. I saw my... Continue Reading →

When you stay outside…

One of the reason that I don't like to travel is I can't take my bed with me. I am one of those who can't sleep well when I have different bed. It's not just the pillow. It's the bed. I like firm bed but not many people like it that way. Many hotel rooms... Continue Reading →

Stressed? or Enjoying?

I like things to work out as I planned. However, things raises to disturb with my plan. If you ask me a year ago "How do I feel about that?" I would tell you one word "frustrated". Catching up with a friend and he/she was late for 10 mins without considerable reason or notice, really?... Continue Reading →

When is a good time?

When something happen, everything happen at the same time. I remember one of the shocking times. I experienced a number of deaths in a row. Although psychologically I understand death is part of everyday life, it seemed that I was attracted to them. At one point, I was very distressed and fearful toward such attraction.... Continue Reading →

Someone once said to me…

I remember those days when I've just lost one of my significant others. It was a sudden death but we were talking for nearly a decade.I was having a chat with one of our common friend. He simply said "you must be looking up on the sky." At the time, I was quite surprised by... Continue Reading →

How am I spending my time?

Did you ever felt that you have wasted your time by attending a party you didn't want to go?Did you ever wondered what happened to your day? I have many episodes of such experience. For example: Attended a business dinner and wondered what am I doing here. Joined a party with a friend and felt... Continue Reading →

Am I walking the light path or dark path?

I am aware of my tendency to project an impression that I'm a person with great smile. This doesn't mean my life is always perfect. I had great times and worst times. However, regardless of happenings in my life, I try my best to remember great times. When I was young, I saw a demonstration... Continue Reading →


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