How I want to determine my happiness?

For many years, I believed that only I can determine my happiness. I still believe in this today. However, what I didn't understand was the true meaning behind this notion. I was a people pleaser. I sought external validation. As I didn't have my own benchmarks, I believed values determined by the general public were... Continue Reading →

When I become my own source of light…

In many occasions, not only becoming the source of light for others, I had to become source of light for myself. I think I was naturally trying it by exploring what I can learn from every experience I had. It was my surviving mechanism to see the light in the dark days. I value dark... Continue Reading →

When I woke up this morning…

When when I woke up this morning, on a weekend, I look out to the window and it was clear blue sky. Then, I told myself "what a perfect day". My heart start singing with joy and my body start to dance. No doubt, it will be a wounderful day. The sun has just arose.... Continue Reading →

What do I need to be happy?

When we ask around 'What is happiness mean to you?" I believe I will receive various answers. It is so unique and individualised. My happiness will not equal to other people's happiness. Others happiness will not equal to mine. So what's my happiness?If you asked me few months ago, I was unable to answer you.... Continue Reading →

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