Taking action for others were something I used to be good. One day I felt unfairness when I needed someone's help and I had no one around. This is the time when I felt that I might not have true friend as I thought I did. So I questioned myself: Why am I doing so... Continue Reading →
What kind of life do I envision?
I remember a talk at a conference where we went to as a group before commencing my tertiary education. I remember a talk so clearly about envision for future. The speaker shared his experience of starting a business, good for few years, followed by facing a bankruptcy. One day, he didn't have any money but... Continue Reading →
How I appreciate each morning?
Wake up every morning is itself a blessing. Facing such opportunity, one has a choice between embrace and live to the fullest or curse it is another reality one needs to face. I don't wake up every morning with such spirit but I still wake up to appreciate it is part of my everyday and... Continue Reading →
How would I like to be remembered?
How would you like to be remembered?What would you like to be known as?What is the legacy that you want to leave behind you?These are the questions that I have asked myself multiple times throughout different points in time. It doesn't mean that I have clear answers to all of these questions. In fact, I... Continue Reading →
How to learn the most important lessons in life?
Not many people can discuss death or life after death in public. For me, it was interesting to even read about it. Well, part of me avoided while the other part was interested in it. When you think back, what was the most important lesson in life?For me, I think the concept of life and... Continue Reading →
When I focus on the problems…
I have strong tendency to focus only on the problems. I used to be trapped in those problems and couldn't get out of that trapped reality. Simply focusing on positive things happened on the day wouldn't help because I am so trapped about the problems. Sometime, I feel even more stressed towards how fast these... Continue Reading →
Am I overly helpful?
Recently, my father went through a minor surgery with overnight stay in the hospital. It was fascinating observing behaviours of parents while it was frustrating getting involved in it. I am aware that I have tendencies to become overly helpful and responsible for family members, particularly my parents. This time, it was fascinating observing behaviour... Continue Reading →
How did I start to trust myself?
Trust myself was a challenging thing concept. Along my journey, many people said "Trust yourself that you'll get there." Yes, I know but how to? Similar to the difficulty I had "to liking myself", it was just not something I used to do. Well, I didn't understand the concept so I really wanted to ask... Continue Reading →
How I have been treated by my supervisor?
I have been working with my supervisor for a decade. It has been a long time from being a student to becoming a colleague. I am only grateful working for and with her. We treat our people like royalty.If you honour and serve the people who works for you, they will honour and serve you.Mary... Continue Reading →
Who owns today?
Sometime, I feel like I live in my past. I allowed my past to invade and ruin my today by been a victim of my past. I was a victim when I felt powerless about my own experience. Then, I was a survivor when I lived through it, turnout right, and still alive. But, neither... Continue Reading →
Journey of Personal Development 