When I was lost of myself, I didn't know who I am. I only saw what I didn't like about myself. I had a very long list of what I am bad at and didn't have many points about what I like about myself. For example, I didn't like that I easily give up on... Continue Reading →
When you find jewels to wake up early in the morning…
There are few benefits that I think it is the benefit in the morning. For me, they are enough to wake me up every morning. For me, one of these benefits is the beauty of the sky. This morning on my way to the bus stop, I saw a full moon just about to set.... Continue Reading →
How shall I appreciate my day?
Someone once said to me "You should appreciate everything happening in your life as a great opportunity in your life." For many years, I didn't really understand the meaning behind it. Only when I realised how overcoming difficulties had strengthened my life. I was a person who refused to take responsibilities. Although by nature, I... Continue Reading →
How do you know whether its positive or negative?
I used to reflect on myself every night and beat myself up before I go sleep. Obviously, it impacted quality of my sleep, without a fail, I would woke up with this feeling of distress, powerless, and failure. I felt powerless because I didn't know what to do or how to make up for it.... Continue Reading →
Who’s my good friend?
I struggled with the phrase 'best friends' or even 'friends'. I used to think families are extension of friends. Probably because of my relationship with my family but I felt it was healthier relationship to think in such way. One night, my niece and sister-in-law were having a chat about 'best friends' or 'good friends'.... Continue Reading →
When you appreciate your health…
About 6 years ago, my doctor had found a cyst in my brain. It was discovered by an accident. This cyst was considerably large and everything I was doing in my life went to pause. At that time, its dimension was about 9 x 3 x 3 cm that was sitting on my right brain.... Continue Reading →
What is wisdom?
I sort of knew that there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom. However, I can never put my finger on what is the difference between these two concepts. Knowledge:1. Facts, information, and skills acquired through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject. 2. Awareness or familiarity gained by experience of... Continue Reading →
How to lift myself up?
Waking up this morning, I felt neither vibrant nor down. I just felt I wasn't my usual self. I don't wake up every morning looking forward for the day. In particularly during the winter, I had to make an effort to get myself out of the bed. I know it is my choice to get... Continue Reading →
Why we have adverse life?
There were times when I questioned why others get to where I want to be quicker than I did. It seems to me that they have easier ride of life than I am. I felt that I had to work harder than others to get where I want to be. I don't think I was... Continue Reading →
What am I investing today for my future self?
For many years, I was living in the way because it seems okay. There were not defining moments when I know, what I am investing for. Everything become obvious only when I looked back and reflected. There were two things I remembered through my youth when I stood on the crossroads, when I was lost... Continue Reading →